How do you say goodbye to someone you don’t “technically” know?

Today is a sad day in the Pittsburgh blogging and social media community.  The anonymous author of The Burgh Blog, PittGirl, a.k.a. Jane Pitt, has closed up shop.  She had mentioned on numerous occasions that she wished she could join the rest of us in the various events that popped up throughout the course of the year, but that her privacy and keeping her identity a secret was, unfortunately, more important. 

Some people don’t understand this aspect of Internet culture, or blogging.  They figure, “Hey, if you can’t attach your name to it, then you’re a fraud/chicken/blahblahblah.”  But that’s not always the case.  Ask Heather Armstrong about how easy it was when co-workers and employers found out that she was the author of Dooce.com.  She lost her job and she had been using pseudonyms for people in her life and at work.  Ask “Miss Snark” how easy it was to continue working as a Literary Agent while maintaining her brutally honest advice and commentary about the publishing filed over at Miss Snark, the Literary Agent (dark as of 5/27/08).

While the culture of Internet anonymity perplexes and (at times) infuriates some, it does have a purpose.  There are thousands (go ahead and look it up) of works that have been published anonymously, from Beowulf, the Epic of Gilgamesh, and Sir Gawain and the Green Knight, to Primary Colors.  There are even more works that have been published under pseudonyms, or pen names, to protect the author.  The topical matter of these works generally falls in a handful of categories:  Politics, Sex, Religion, or Controversial topics that butt heads with the predominant cultural norms of the time/place.  Pen names–nom de plumes–allow authors to write honestly, critically, and without fear of retaliation for holding and speaking from a different point of view than the majority.  Going against the grain and being the voice of criticism in a political environment is particularly difficult.  When you work in politics, to question or criticize the current administration (local, or national) is asking to be tarred and feathered. 

Majorities and ruling parties like sycophants.  Just ask Richard II… and we all know how well that  turned out…

Bloggers like PittGirl are important to a culture and city because they give a voice to those who refuse to be blinded by power.  Her criticisms weren’t only witty, they were spot on and topical.  They made people think, and any writer that accomplishes that task has already won the game.  Pittsburgh has a vibrant social media community with active blogger, podcasters, content producers, and social networkers, but the loss of PittGirl’s voice will shake things up.  She bridged the gap between the Internet culture and the people of the community, and people will miss that.  They’ll miss her.  It’s like saying goodbye to a college friend you don’t know if you’ll ever see again. 

But every individual has a right to their privacy and their lives.  I only hope fans and detractors both give her the privacy she has a right to.  I’ll certainly miss reading her daily posts and her wit, and I hope she is able to find another voice somewhere to connect to the people who love to listen to her.  More importantly, I hope that she inspired individuals to create their own homes online to speak from, and maybe the void that her leaving will create will be temporary.  Maybe people will reach out and fill it with their own voices because she led the way for them to do so.  I hope.

PittGirl is a gifted humorist and writer, and I only hope she finds a new home to write from. 

Soon.

PG:  KIT, yo.  TTYL.

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10 comments so far

 1 

Dawn thanks for your thoughts. I just started following theburghblog and now it is over. Shame. The blogging world also lost Fake Steve Jobs this year after he was outed. I wonder if all the press and pressure of being anonymous got to her. I really wish that she didn’t just close it all up so abruptly. She isn’t on twitter today, and there is no closure for the community. Although perhaps she will respond to email.

I also wonder why she took her whole site down completely. Why not leave it up?

November 18th, 2008 at 12:15 pm
 2 

Norm,

I was thinking about that, actually. She didn’t give any indication as to whether or not the archives will be left up for people to read and reminisce with, or whether that letter will be the landing page from now on. Miss Snark left up the archives for readers to utilize. Did Fake Steve Jobs? I dunno. If it was the pressure of keeping her identity secret, it’s possible that the presence of the blog and archives would only encourage more snooping, perhaps. ~*shrugs*~

Sometimes it’s easier to close up shop (like ripping off a band-aid) all at once rather than a slow, painful process of letting something die out. And we all know that if she menioned shutting down, the response would have been to try and get her to stay. Maybe the pressure got to her, maybe the pressure of people trying to figure out who she was got to her… I guess we won’t know.

I agree though, there isn’t much closure, and that’s (strangely) difficult to deal with. I started reading last year, and it feels like when my favorite authors decide to end a storyline, or stop writing all together. It’s sad.

November 18th, 2008 at 12:35 pm
 3 

Well said. I have to agree with you both, Norm and Dawn, that the lack of closure is disconcerting. I feel like I want to be mad at someone for snooping too much, pushing too hard, or . . . something. Yet, we’re left with nothing. Perhaps that was the point of the abrupt and complete shutdown.

November 18th, 2008 at 1:05 pm
 4 

A touching and fitting tribute, Dawn…

November 18th, 2008 at 2:31 pm
 5 

i read an article on a pittsburgh newspaper website that reported somebody found out who she is and emailed her to let her know that they knew. they said they would keep it a secret, but that’s pandora’s box right there……i will miss her blog ….sigh

November 18th, 2008 at 8:57 pm
Joe Polk
 6 

The reason that her web site was nuke completely is because she had always said that she worked with a number of the people through her job that she had made fun of or criticized through her blog. If the person that contacted her actually revealed her name, then people could go back to her blog and see the things that she wrote about them. I totally agree with what she did. I just hope that the person that figured things out didn’t save any of her web site.

November 19th, 2008 at 12:06 pm
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@BurghBaby - Disconcerting. Yes. And with Plurk choked up and Twitter down for so long yesterday, it felt like the Pittsburgh interwebz revolted entirely. Glad to see she’s still twittering, though.

@Still A Fan — You aren’t alone, certainly. I hope she is able to find a new voice, though I don’t know if it will be the same.

@Joe — Yup. She was doing interviews all day yesterday, so the big picture became a little more clear. That’s a big problem, and I can’t blame her for removing everything. It’s sad that all of that writing is gone. I’m a bibliophile, though, and the thought of ideas and written texts being stripped from archives/public view makes my soul sieze a little.

@Scott — Thank you. :)

November 19th, 2008 at 12:44 pm
Chris Bunye
 8 

When I read this, I also responded on my blog, saddened that this happened, but also understood why.

I’ll keep a spot on Google Reader open for her return, as will we all.

Well-written post, Dawn.

November 19th, 2008 at 2:10 pm
Honestly
 9 

She wasn’t that good of a writer, wasn’t funny at all, very self important, and mega narcissistic. This weeks past events prove this.

The embracing of simplemindedness and medocrity in this town kills me. This is not the end of an era. If we define ourselves by her/his/their (whoever PittGirl is or was) worldview, then I don’t want to be a Pittsburgher. That’s the problem. This region has an identity crisis. Why can’t we be like New York or Chicago and just all be who we want to be individually? Then Pittsburgh becomes truly diverse and not this place where belonging means wearing mesh Steeler jerseys every weekend. ARGH.

PittGirl = PG = Post Gazette

November 20th, 2008 at 2:08 pm
Z
 10 

A fitting tribute to PittGirl. Thanks

November 20th, 2008 at 5:19 pm

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